Is my dad watching over me?

Dear James, I know you get this question a lot, but I lost my dad 15 years ago. I was only 10 years old at the time and I just wanted to know how he is and if he's still around watching over me?

Tim Rigby, St Helens

Dear Tim, I know anyone can jump to this conclusion with you being young, but 'turn the music down' - as I read this e-mail I had that said to me twice.

I feel you're like your dad. You are very deep and think a lot about stuff. I know it's hard but you need to speak to people about your feelings. I don't mean just about your dad but how you feel about loads of stuff.

I just feel your dad was what I would call a man's man. But he has real pride and love for you all. As I link with him I am drawn to my head. I feel there was some confusion with him before he passed but I feel he is very strong now.

I am drawn to a female who he keeps showing me. I do feel very tired as he links with me which makes me feel did he pass in his sleep or in a hospital bed rather than outside suddenly? And was he a smoker or is that you? Don't worry, all the things that are happening now will change and it will be better.